This is 3rd time i am asking, but want more opinions, or someone with firsthand knowledge!?

I filed for divorce from my wife of 2 years 4 months, we have been seperated for 6 months, she got served a little over 3 months ago. We live in California (san joaquin county), both of us don't have lawyers. We recently did child custody and support, and i pay her. She wants alimony and whatever shes entitled to of my 401.What are her chances of getting either? seriously. She is only 25 , healthy and fully capable of looking for at least a part time job. She doesn't want to because shes waiting around for a position to open up in the Post Office ( we work together)...so she works 1-2 days a week. I have our son appx. 44% of time, and another son all the time.And it would seriously affect my quality of life for me and my sons, I would probably have to move. What does anyone think judge will order, remember he already ordered child support, which i have no problem paying.....i know it is supposed to be 1 half the time of marriage, do they count that from time of seperation? Should i get a lawyer and proceed with divorce, because im doing on my own with paralegal doing papers.?