Why do some guys underrate Black girls because they know they can't get the ones they'd want?

\Honey I think its down to racism and there is a hell of a lot of that in America more so as you say than other countries. I am from the UK, white and married to a black guy from Barbados, lived in Barbados for two years and again the same kind of thing you say I found to be true. Is that you in the picture by the way - wow but you are absolutely beautiful. England we have some racism I wont pretend not, but not as bad as the US thankfully. Me - well I don't see skin colour I see the person. Even before I met my husband, I always felt people are people whatever their culture or creed etc so live and let live. I think lots of white guys find the black girls attractive, but its so true black sisters seem to stick together and seem to hate us whites. Sad old world we still live in really.

Is it harmful to use Retin-A while pregnant? Ive used it for the first four months and im freaking out?

ive read mixed things, how its pregnancy category C, which means it could be harmful to a fetus or there has not been enough testing, etc. i know that vit A taken internally has been proven to cause birth defects, but does anyone know firsthand if topical gel really harms a fetus? ive been googling it all day and get contradicting answers: basically, has anyone used this while preg and is your baby normal? im terrified about this. thanks =(

Should my horse be shod or not? Please help!?

My horse is 15 years old and has never been shod. She is a Tennessee Walker and has a naturally smooth gait. I'm not sure how she will do with the shoes, I just got her. She rides English, Western, and bareback, but I only ride Western and bareback. I was also wondering if I don't get her shod will she get thrush more easily or founder. Also, will she be able to ride on the road? And on concrete and stones for a short period of time? Thanks for the advice!

If I want to be an intern for a psychologist....?

Do you have a career center at your high school or local community college? That would be a good place to find more information. You may not be able to be an intern without any training or a college degree, but you could at least find a psychologist who will discuss their job with you. Job shadowing is a good option too, but due to rules on confidentiality, you probably wouldn't be able to sit in on a therapy session.

Failing family... Please no rude comments :'(?

i have a similar problem except its my mum and she has a heart condition. it's bad & im 14 too there's not allot i can do to. im saving up for things to cheer up my family because my mum says making others happy makes her happy so i cheer up everyone i see that's upset and when my mum sees them with a smile she smiles and i makes me feel better knowing shes happy

Potassium Chloride pellets for my water softener. Does anyone have any opinions on this?

These are being advertised as a more healthy alternative to your typical salt pellets, but I need some advice from someone who has firsthand experience with this product.

Front crawl catch and pull technique?

First, keep your fingers together, and cup your hand. Think of it this way, if you tried to scoop water with a fork, you wouldn't get much, but if you scooped water with a spoon, you would catch much more. Then when you catch and pull, keep your wrist straight, bending at the elbow and pulling from your forearm down to your fingers. You can bend slightly if it is uncomfortable when your hand first enters and exits the water and when your arm is out of the water, but when you pull, keep it straight.